Mary of Bethany: Disciple

Mary of Bethany was a disciple, and there’s no doubt about it! She relished the place at Jesus’ feet and unapologetically sat to learn from Him. It has been said that she was a profile in godliness. Wow! What a statement! So as we consider discipleship, what did it mean for Mary and the other females who shared space within Christ’s inner circle? Many things, but first, let’s go back to the original twelve and unpack what makes being a disciple - on all levels - not only a unique and divine calling but God’s perfect plan. To begin, let’s define disciple. At its origin, disciple means follower, learner, pupil. Traditionally, a disciple was a believer and close follower of Jesus. Note that others had disciples, too, namely John the Baptist and Paul. But obviously, to be Jesus’ disciple took discipleship to a whole other level.

As we highlight the term, pupil, the understanding of “student” comes into view. According to Dr. James A. Swanson, “pupil implies a closer relationship than mere information.” From that explanation, it’s clear that the emphasis is on the master/pupil relationship and the time spent together, rather than the mere exchange of words or ideas. So it was not only what Jesus said that impacted the original twelve for kingdom work, but what they witnessed, and ultimately, put into practice. Alone, that fruit supports the evidence of effectual training through the master/pupil relationship. My point? Those called and chosen shared in every aspect of Jesus’ life and He saw to their daily preparation as only He could. The Master schooled them, and they were well-equipped to suffer for His cause. But it was more than that. They were called to do so and were willing to accept their call to defend the gospel at all costs. Indeed, these men walked in the footsteps of Jesus.

Note that the twelve, called to be apostles, are not to be confused with regular disciples. Although some of their power was evidenced before Pentecost, due to the nature and purpose of their apostolic call, the unique gifts they needed would not fully ignite or be understood until after the resurrection and ascension of Jesus. Only then would all things come together to launch Christ’s church. Specifically, at Pentecost, as His spirit filled them, their gifts came to life, began to flourish, and bear fruit. Why were they different? These men would launch the church - support its existence - confirm and oversee its leaders and give godly oversight and protection to all things Christ - including His church. Indeed, they would give their all, and ultimately, all but John would be martyred for their faith.

By extension, our discipleship call is similar but note this. These had received and possessed a unique divine authority! Consequently, they also raised the dead, called out demons, fed the multitudes, walked on water, healed the sick, blind, and diseased, etc., set the enemy to flight, and by the Spirit’s leading, recalled the spoken words of Jesus and wrote them down - verbatim. To bring Jesus inspired words to life, divine revelation was needed. As Jesus promised, God provided. The Bible records Jesus’ words to Judas and the disciples: “These things I have spoken to you while being present with you. But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you.” (John 14:25-26). (Emphasis added.) These twelve were in the inner circle, but within it, there was also a tighter cluster or nucleus of three. Peter, James, and John. Their future tasks would require an even deeper work of grace. So it’s not what makes a disciple, but who, and the answer is always the same - God - who sent His spirit and calls us to follow Jesus.

And He called others, too! Women! The Bible reveals that female disciples were not only a welcomed part of Jesus’ life and ministry but vital to its day-to-day operations. How vital? Very! Not only in service and through prayer, but many being women of means, gave joyously and richly benefited His ministry and mission from their resources. Lest we forget, even in Jesus’ day, ministry, which basically means to serve required money. So, yes! They brought a lot to the table and many traveled with Jesus, learned from Him, and supported Him as needed. Here’s a highlight:

“Mary called Magdalene, out of whom had come seven demons, and Joanna the wife of Chuza, Herod’s steward, and Susanna, and many others who provided for Him from their substance” (Luke 8:2-3). (Emphasis added.) Note the emphasis on many others. The passage confirms female discipleship. But watch this. I see no biblical evidence that “taking the road trip” or “joining the traveling troop” was a requirement for discipleship. We see this biblical model replicated, even today. Some go, and others stay behind, pray, and support missions from the rear.

So, we include Mary among His disciples because of what she did and what it meant. First, Mary assumed the pupil's position. She "sat at His feet, and heard His word" (Luke 10:39). Surely it was a familiar, comfortable place for Mary. She went there with grace and ease, even though it caused her sister, Martha, much unrest. (See Luke 10:38-42.) Next, since Mary was His pupil, note the relationship distinction exposed in the passionate, timely nature of His anointing. Through fellowship, Mary was close to God. She not only knew what was needed but when. Incredibly, she discerned the times and offered this coveted sacrament three days before He died on Calvary. It's the only anointing for burial that Jesus received, and it was God's loving plan. Surely this Spirit-inspired, sacred act exposes Mary of Bethany for who she was - Jesus' disciple. Of Mary's anointing, Jesus said, "…she [Mary] has kept this for the day of My burial" (John 12:7).

What’s the takeaway? Mary was a disciple in every sense of the word. Although we see no evidence that she traveled with Him or gave of her wealth, watch this: Jesus came to her. That’s right, and how incredible to consider! Jesus sought the company of Mary and her siblings in Bethany, often. Of his earthly companions, these were His dearest friends outside the twelve who followed close enough to hear Him whisper. I have an idea that Mary, too, would lean in to hear Him if need be. Perhaps so close as to feel His breath upon her face. Yes, Mary, a true disciple, and profile in godliness, would avail every minute possible to be schooled by the Master and enjoy His presence.

Prayer: Mighty and gracious Lord, beckon us to draw near and lean in. Make us like Mary, disciples after your heart. Grow our faith and bring rich fruit to bear! May all the acts we do be as beautiful and timely as Mary’s because we have discerned the times through our coveted relationship with you. Thank you, Jesus. Amen and amen.